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  • Written by Carly Moores, Post-doctoral research assistant in childhood overweight, Flinders University
imageChildren don't always want to eat what's in front of them.from shutterstock.com

Meal times with young children can be stressful, especially after a day at work or a day caring for them. And if they refuse to eat the nutritious dinner you’ve cooked, this can easily lead to frustration.

Here are six things you could do to make meal times a bit less stressful.

Tip 1: Get them involved

Avoid doing it all yourself, because kids can help in the kitchen too. Get them involved in food preparation and they may become more interested in food and willing to taste new things.

Most often, adults prepare meals for children to eat. But involving children in preparing, cooking and even growing food can be an opportunity to teach them about healthy eating. Research shows involving children in this way can influence their food preferences, attitudes and behaviours.

imageGetting children to help with all aspects of meal times has many benefits.from shutterstock.com

Even very young children can help with setting the table, washing ingredients, measuring and mixing. Involving kids in food-related activities leads to increased positive emotions in children, more confidence in selecting and eating healthy foods, and a greater liking and eating of fruit and vegetables – as well as being more willing to taste new ones.

Tip 2: Make sure they come to the table hungry

There’s nothing like hunger to encourage a child to try something they might not like. Eating in the hour or two before dinner is enough to put anyone off their meal. This is particularly true for children.

The best way to avoid this is to set up a meal-time routine. Children respond well to knowing what is going to happen and when, so consistently offer three meals and three snacks each day (every two to three hours, for instance).

Importantly, children should not graze in between on anything other than water – even a little milk, juice or a few crackers can spoil a child’s appetite.

imageChildren shouldn’t graze on anything between meal and snack times other than water.from shutterstock.com

Tip 3: Turn off all the screens

With access to screens and devices within arm’s reach, it can be hard to switch off. You should aim to turn off all screens and other devices and connect with each other as a family.

Connecting as a family over a shared meal is associated with a healthy diet and promotes a positive eating environment for children. Eating meals together as a family encourages mindful eating and family discussion about the day.

Family meals are important for both young children and teenagers – so start this healthy habit with your family today.

imageMake sure there are no distractions, like iPads, at the table.from shutterstock.com

Tip 4: Let them decide how much to eat

Sometimes it can be tempting to force kids to eat all of what’s on their plate, or to bribe them with dessert in exchange for eating more of their meal. But children have a natural ability to self-regulate their eating in response to internal hunger cues, which can easily be overridden by emotional cues or demands from adults.

So instead of pushing for your child to eat a certain amount , apply a “division of responsibility” at meal times. You can use what is called the “parent provides, child decides” strategy. Here you provide nutritious food to your child and allow him or her to use their innate ability to self-regulate their appetite and decide if, and how much, they eat.

imageChildren have a natural ability to self-regulate in response to internal hunger cues.Kelly Sikkema/Unsplash

Tip 5: Serve only one meal for the whole family

Save time, money and stress by offering one meal for the whole family. It can be disappointing if your child doesn’t eat or won’t even try the meal you have made. But you shouldn’t force or bribe your child to eat. So, what do you do?

As above, ensuring your child comes to the table hungry will help. Try not to offer an alternative or enter into any trade-offs with your child. This will tell your child they have control over the situation when you should ultimately be in control.

Regularly or willingly offering alternatives you know they will like won’t give them the repeated exposure they need to accept and like new foods. It is also important for all family members (adults and children) to have the same family meal where possible as role modelling of eating behaviours improves children’s intake.

imageIt is important for all family members to have the same family meal where possible.from shutterstock.com

Tip 6: Stay calm!

Pressuring or encouraging children to eat is a strategy often used by parents to increase a child’s eating. But such practices are not effective in improving children’s intake and can lead to an unhealthy relationship with specific foods.

This works both ways, such as explicitly encouraging or praising children for eating a lot or everything on their plate (“Good girl for eating all of that, Lily”) or making meals a battleground if not much is eaten (“Be a good girl for mummy and eat a bit more please, Lily”).

The best results come from responding in a neutral way, with as little emotion as possible (“Are you finished, Lily?”). Adding stress to the situation will only result in less food eaten.

Children do not eat well when they are pressured to eat and will not starve to death if they miss a meal or two. If your child refuses a meal or does not eat anything in about 15 to 20 minutes, calmly remove his or her food.

imageDon’t force your children to eat their food.from shutterstock.com

Carly Moores is an employee of Flinders University which holds the licence for the Parenting, Eating and Activity for Child Health (PEACH™) Program. She has previously received personal funding for research from the Australian Government, CSIRO, and the Sax Institute, and has worked on projects funded by the Queensland Department of Health, NHMRC, National Partnership Agreement on Preventive Health, The National Heart Foundation, The Channel 7 Children's Research Foundation, and Flinders Medical Centre Foundation. She is a current member of the Nutrition Society of Australia, the Public Health Association of Australia, the Australian and New Zealand Obesity Society, and Healthy Development Adelaide.

Jacqueline Miller has previously received funding from Queensland University of Technology for the evaluation of the Parenting, Eating and Activity for Child Health (PEACH™) Program and from the Channel 7 Children's Research Foundation and the Sax Institute. She is an Advanced Accredited Practising Dietitian and a member of the Dietitians' Association of Australia.

Lucinda Bell is an employee of Flinders University and currently receives funding from the Channel 7 Children's Research Foundation to undertake her research. She has worked on projects funded by the South Australian Department of Health, National Health and Medical Research Council, Sax Institute, Flinders University and Flinders Medical Centre Foundation. She is a current member of the Nutrition Society of Australia, Dietitians Association of Australia, Australia and New Zealand Obesity Society and Healthy Development Adelaide.

Authors: Carly Moores, Post-doctoral research assistant in childhood overweight, Flinders University

Read more http://theconversation.com/six-ways-to-improve-meal-times-with-your-children-76575

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